100 Questions to ask on a first date

It’s your first date and you are extremely nervous and stressed about how to get the conversation started. Don’t worry we all have been through that at some point in our lives. First dates can often feel quite nerve-wracking, you are often wondering how to keep the conversation going without making things awkward. Here is a list of 100 questions to ask on a first date.

I would suggest starting with a few of them to get the conversation going. Remember to not ask too many questions, as this may make the other person uncomfortable and feel under attack.

Questions to ask on a first date:

1. What do you like to do for fun?
2. What do you do for work?
3. Where did you grow up?
4. What is your favorite thing to do on a weekend?
5. Tell me about your family?
6. Do you have any pets?
7. What is your favorite food?
8. All-time favorite movie?
9. What is your favorite TV show?
10. What kind of music do you like?
11. Who are some of your favorite bands/artists?
12. What is your favorite book?
13. Do you have any siblings?
14. What is your biggest pet peeve?
15. What is the best trip you have ever been on?
16. Where would you like to go on vacation but have never been?
17. What is the worst trip you have ever been on?
18. What is your favorite thing about yourself?
19. Do you have any fears or phobias?
20. Least favorite thing about yourself?
21. What are some of your goals in life?
22. What is the funniest thing that has ever happened to you?
23. The most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you?
24. Best piece of advice you have ever received?
25. Who is your role model/hero?
26. If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
27. Are you a morning person or a night person?
28. What are you looking for in this relationship?
29. Do you like to cook?
30. What is your biggest fear?
31. What do you do when stressed?
32. Beach or Mountains?
33. What is your favorite dessert?
34. What is your comfort food?
35. Do you like to dance?
36. Are you a dog person or a cat person?
37. Do you prefer a night at home or a night out on the town?
38. Do you believe in Aliens?
39. What is your favorite board game?
40. What is your opinion on ghosts?
41. Do you like to play video games?
42. Do you prefer warm weather or cold weather?
43. Are you a neat freak or do you tend to be messy?
44. Do you like to plan things out or just go with the flow?
45. Do you like to be spontaneous or do you like to plan everything in advance?
46. What is your favorite color?
47. Do you like to talk on the phone or text?
48. Do you have any tattoos or piercings?
49. What is your favorite style of clothing?
50. Favorite summer activity?
51. Do you like to play sports?
52. If you could describe yourself in three words, what would they be?
53. What is your idea of the perfect date?
54. What’s the worst date you have been on?
55. If you could live in any place in this world where would it be and why?
56. If you were an animal which animal would you be?
57. What was your dream job as a child?
58. Where did you go to school?
59. What was your worst job?
60. What was the naughtiest thing you did as a child?
61. Best Childhood memory?
62. What is your motto in life?
63. What is one thing you would change about the world?
64. The first thing you would do if you won the lottery?
65. The first thing that comes to your mind when I Say “Love”?
66. Who are you closest to in your family?
67. What is one thing you would change about yourself?
68. What motivates you?
69. Did anything interesting happen to you this week?
70. Who are some of your closest friends and how did you meet them?
71. What is your favorite restaurant?
72. What has been the best year of your life so far?
73. Do you have any nicknames? What are they and why do you have them?
74. How would your friends describe you to someone they had just met?
75. If you could have any career in the world, what would it be?
76. What is your favorite sports team and why?
77. What is your favorite thing to do outside?
78. Do you like to go camping or hiking?
79. Have you ever been surfing or bungee jumping?
80. What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
81. Are you afraid of heights?
82. What would your perfect morning be like
83. How often do you use your phone?
84. If you could give up one addiction what would it be?
85. What are you most grateful for?
86. If you knew you were dying soon. what would you do?
87. What qualities are you looking for in a partner?
88. What was your favorite subject in school?
89. Do you like big parties or small gatherings?
90. When is your birthday?
91. Do you believe in soul mates?
92. Do you like shopping?
93. What is your idea of fun?
94. Tea or Coffee?
95. Favorite drink?
96. Where would you like to see yourself in ten years?
97. Do you come from a big family?
98. Do you speak other languages?
99. Are you interested in politics?
100. Is there anything you would like to ask me?

So, there you have it! 100 questions to ask on a first date. These questions should help you get to know your date better, and they might even provide some laughs along the way.

Keep in mind that not all of these questions will be relevant to every couple, so feel free to skip around or choose the ones that are most interesting to

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